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The best way to give back might be to collate and share with us the advice you received (private issues anonymised), so that we and our friends who may need it can also benefit. Here on ths thread, or on its own thread, but linked here. Good luck and seriously thank you for having the courage to ask the question! There will be many silent people on this board who still don't have that courage, but are longing for some help.