[TheAntipodean]

I'm a pretty seasoned traveller and I'll give you one bit of advice if you want to meet people: go to your local bar early when it is pretty much the bartenders and you. Likely they are bored and will have a chat with you. Mention that you are a tourist ask some questions and soon they will be introducing you to the locals.

It is a great way for meeting people and having a great time. I've used it many times. Last week I was in the pacific for work and by night's end was invited to a BBQ for the next day. It turned out to be a great BBQ and a unique insight into the lifestyle of the island.

When I visited Paris I made friends with the local bartender and was receiving free drinks by nights end and invites left, right and centre to join people on little adventures.

[iM8t]

Thanks! Only there's a small problem - I'm not a drinker. Perhaps I will try cafes.

[TheAntipodean]

Probably doesn't matter too much. I go to bars and read books. I'm sure going to a bar and ordering a coffee is less conspicuous and accepted. In fact last year I contracted an eye disease and was on all sorts of medication. I was out at bars drinking teas while my friends were drinking alcohol. Doing slightly off standard stuff like that tends to draw attention and people spark up conversations with you.

I'm sure the main point is go when the staff have some downtime and the business is a social business. I can't remember where it was but I've gone to a cafe for a tea and ended up playing backgammon with some old guys. Many countries seem to have a strong cafe culture where old men sit around playing board games (Middle East and Central America; chess and backgammon).

Best of luck. If you find it hard to socialise now I am sure after travelling for a while you will be much more comfortable with it.