[novax81]

The difference between working with bad bosses and good bosses really shows itself when there's a disaster going on.

A mere few months into my current job, I ran an SQL query that updated some rows without properly checking one of the subqueries. Long story short - I fucked up an entire attribute table on a production machine (client insisted they didn't need a dev clone). I literally just broke down and started panicking, sure that I'd just lost my new job and wouldn't even have a reference to run on for a new one.

After a few minutes of me freaking out, my boss just says: "You fucked up. I've fucked up before, probably worse than this. Let's go fix it." And that was it. We fixed it (made it even better than it was, as we fixed the issue I was working on in the process), and instead of feeling like an outcast who didn't belong, I learned something and became a better dev for it.

[zdgman]

I really wish this was at the top. Everyone will fuck up at some point (even your best engineer). Whether you learn anything from fucking up really determines how bad your mistake was.