[notdarkyet]

No. You should have done those things for yourself. Anything that drives you should have been for you.

Along the way, you find someone that views you for the person you are trying to be, the one you are now, and whatever is the spur of the moment.

I don't intend to judge you, just the comment. I really think this post is shit and I have not idea why I chose to respond to your post.

Chuck it up man. We are are all fucking just getting by with our shit.

[Claudus]

I have done these things for myself.

[skore]

That seems to be contradictory:

> Everything I've done in my adult life has been motivated by my desire to be attractive to women that I'm interested in;

[beaner]

No reason it can't be both.