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by nviarnes 4860 days ago
I don't think Cushman is saying pretending to be nice is "shitty".

> Being nice to a beaurocrat is stupid. Appear to be nice or even charming is one thing but always be willing to throw them under the bus once you are done with them.

I think he is saying it is shitty to pretend to be nice and then be willing to thrown them under the bus when you are done with them....

Why not actually be nice? What is stupid about being nice to a bureaucrat? It's not as if a bureaucrat is not a person, and people respond to kindness. Pretending to be nice to someone and then being "willing to throw them under the bus when you're are done with them", sounds pretty sociopathic to me. And I don't know about you but I find sociopathic tendencies pretty shitty....