As a parent of two middle schoolers, I am a lot less worried about adults using adult language to talk about business than I am about the people who can't tell the difference between that and actual threats to my children.
Please describe these actual threats to your children that you claim. As the first public internet provider in my country we encountered many of these 'actual treats' claims or 'child pornography' witch hunts but we never found a shred of evidence to support them.