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by jessriedel 4880 days ago
> The only way you should concern yourself with living is to try to be happy every day, whatever that means to you.

Barf. There's a lot more to life and human flourishing than just making yourself happy.

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No need for the barf response. It's actually the truest and best advice one can get.

Genius does what genius knows will make him/her happy[1].

That's it. Simple as that.

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[1] Of course we know and appreciate the difficulty of defining that. Or that we've appreciated that happiness is probably only "achievable" obliquely. Or that happiness isn't what we are after ... after all, and that it's meaningfulness that we seek. Or that even after searching for meaning we come to the absurd conclusion that our existence is devoid of any meaning! Doesn't matter really, just be happy. FFS.

Clearly. We should strive to be miserable and frustrated because that's a lot better.
We should strive for something greater than ourselves.
Fair point. Chasing happiness (esp. short term pleasure) as an end in itself, rather than as a side effect of doing valuable things, is unlikely to result in happiness.

But I think a strategic view of "what big choices in life will contribute to long term happiness?" is a still good thing to consider.

Isn't that the opposite of the original sentence I quoted?
It could be.

I think if a person's "happiness every day" is "smoke crack and gamble in search of a short-lived rush", he needs to reevaluate, because that won't serve long term happiness.

OTOH, if a person's "happiness every day" is "do yoga, spend time with family, and work reasonable hours at a job he enjoys", then that's a good idea.

Ideally, the short term and the long term are reasonably aligned, otherwise you get problems.

In that case, "happiness every day" is a uselessly vague term.
What does this even mean? Surely it's all relative, measured by our interpretation of what's great. I'm sure many theoretical physicists would consider their life work to be great, while many others would consider abstract theoretical physics with no practical application completely useless.

Personally, I aim to enjoy life and ensure that any children I have can do the same. I'm not sure if I'd see a point if there wasn't happiness in it for me. Fundamentally, we're fairly insignificant. Your interpretation of life is all you have. Why not be happy?

People can have different priorities in life e.g., instead of "be happy everyday" one can choose to focus on "leave the world a better place".
isn't thought about better world make you happy?
Do read beyond the comma: "whatever that means to you".