[king_jester]

> The scale of the pickiness is the problem. I don't mind women being picky locally, but when they spread rumors and attempt to destroy a guys reputation amongst large networks... thats the problem.

Anyone can be as picky as they want for an intimate partner, to suggest that someone lower their standards to please someone else is really offensive. Also, rumors are a totally legit form of social defense, even if rumors can have downsides, but the solution to that isn't less talking and lowered standards.

[monksy]

The even claim that a guy can or even threaten to blacklist a girl within his social networks is ludicrous.

[jtbigwoo]

Of course he can. Didn't you ever go to high school or work in a gossipy office? It doesn't take too many people saying, "She's a slut/ice queen/crazy bitch/diva" before it becomes conventional wisdom in a social group.

[monksy]

Guys for the most part have a short term memory for those kinds of things. We don't have that much use for it.

[rooker]

What? Are you generalizing to an entire gender?