[mootothemax]

Playing devil's advocate re CC bills, one of my friends has always maintained that the only reason he hasn't paid for porn online is because he doesn't want his bank manager to know he's gay. (Regardless of what would appear on his bank statement, it's just not something he wanted to risk - I've never asked for an in depth reason as to why it's a risk).

[logn]

I worked in IT at a bank. No one ever just reads account details for fun. If you call about a question on your account then maybe they will. But by and large employees really don't care at all. Besides, most transaction names are pretty cryptic, especially from sex sites, who often use a 3rd party service.

[sharkweek]

Former bank teller here --

I've seen it happen where a couple would be sitting down together working out some account fraud with one of the branch managers and some dubious charges would come up. In my four years working there, saw probably 3-4 couples storm out in anger related to something the other found on the account related to pornography

[Firehed]

I get that this is, in fact, a real problem - but it's hardly one related to banking or finance. Sounds more like relationship trouble to me.

I'd be more concerned about the bitcoin conversion services showing up in some sort of record than porn since it's so easy to connect with far more questionable services. Yes, a lot of people want to be off the grid (especially financially), but the reality is that a lot of people buy into the "why do you need privacy if you have nothing to hide" mantra. Even spouses.

[icey]

When I bought some bitcoins, I did it with cash. I took money to a bank teller, and wired it to an account; then the service sent me the bitcoin via email. I never showed ID, so there was no way to track it to me. I suppose if someone cared enough to track a cash withdrawal they could do that, but in no way was my bank account connected with a bitcoin transaction at any time.

[tedunangst]

I'm amazed that anybody thinks the dude behind the desk is sitting around perusing people's statements, but if that's your concern, just get a credit card from a bank in another state.

[icey]

Aye, my example case when talking about it with friends has been "bitcoin BSDM gear, so nobody finds out you're secretly a bondage bronie"