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HTML? By having many small players, plus by virtue of the US department of Justice.

E-mail? By having many small players, or at least not one player able to call the shots.

Even today, many parties try to make carve out their own communication kingdoms. Examples: BlackBerry, MS Exchange, Apple's iMessage and FaceTime, GMail (doesn't do push email anymore via Exchange emulation)

And yes, HTTP is open, as is TCP/IP. That, IMO, is because of two things: lower layers get commoditized and network effects. Even disregarding the latter, there is too little money to make in such low-level stuff (that also is why Apple builds on BSD and Google on Linux, and both use OpenGL.)

And that democratic mindset? I tried to make an observation, not to tell you what I thought the world should look like.