[jmd28]

Not sure if I've been banned here or not... my account seems to have been wiped out... but whatever.

I think part of what people are picking up on is that for all his generosity of spirit and love for Sally, he's decidedly unsympathetic to anyone else which suggests to me he's underestimating things. Was Mr. WoW a horrible human to begin with? Did he know what he was doing? Did he have the support structure you excellently advised about creating in your other post? Did he just love WoW or did WoW become his only escape from a situation he could no longer handle? Those aren't questions for anyone, just ones I might ask myself.

[Jayschwa]

You don't appear to be hell-banned (if that's what you're referring to in your first sentence).