[mburshteyn]

Applies to many of the comments on this thread, so just posting it separately. TL;DR the language we use to discuss and analyze these kinds of issues is not neutral.

http://www.derailingfordummies.com/complete.html

[jlgreco]

Instead of spamming that link, why don't you try leading by example?

(Now tell me, which derailment tactic did I just employ? I can't be bothered to read them all to find out.)