[hmokiguess]

Please please please someone take over discord and their use base. Their nitro and ads is the most toxic nonsense stuff I have ever had the displeasure to work with.

I am in a niche market with both new gen workers and customers and discord is a really important medium to engage and connect with them. My soul dies every time I am there dealing with all sorts of psychological traps and baits to more spending coupled with the incessant advertising.

I don't even care anymore who wins that market, just get me out of it.

[adzm]

There is so little advertising on discord that I find it hilarious you are so upset about a few notifications here and there about nitro and other aesthetic perks which are basically entirely optional

[hresvelgr]

There are 3rd party ads in Discord now, and they are probably going to expand as an ad platform. I think this is what the parent comment was upset about.

edit: grammar

[hmokiguess]

That too, I have to be on Nitro because of work. (Managing communities, streaming resolution, etc), and the level of ads triple after being a customer. Even worse if you need to blend in like adopting some of the customization since the cult goes deep.

To be fair, I put myself there and I voluntarily work with those audiences. I am aware I don't belong to the same level they do, and I'm ok with that. I just wish I could customize it my way too. In my view, if this was a protocol rather than a PaaS locked-in system, like IRC for example, we all would be winning.

[hmokiguess]

A few notifications here and there? I'm not sure I can agree with you. It's a daily persistent thing that there is no way to disable and the constant dark patterns.

I believe I am not alone with things like https://betterdiscord.app/ having more than 56M downloads (and that being just one of the custom mods)

[xboxnolifes]

I'm actually confused about what you mean with "daily persistent thing". I see a discord popup on start about a new feature or ad for some collaboration maybe once a month. Most days it just starts and brings me to the last server I was in.

[hmokiguess]

Three things I can't remove from the UI that often have intrusive popups at random placed directly under "Friends":

1. Nitro Home 2. Shop 3. Quests

And hovering on users often brings up upsell.

[xboxnolifes]

Interesting, I almost never see any of that stuff when I use discord, but I realize that's because I almost never use DMs.

[axus]

Charging for perks and user self-expression seems a lot healthier than what we see in app stores and websites.

This is all pre-IPO, it's sure to get worse; hopefully one of the Discord alternatives will have caught on by then.

The big line they've crossed is collecting identification; much thanks to HN for linking to the bypass that worked for a day.

[Ekaros]

I have never seen true need to get Nitro. Missing on some things but if someone wants to pay for it let them.

Big question is how else would they make money? Monetise hosting "servers" directly? Would they have even gotten community if they did that?

[hmokiguess]

Do you have or use Discord for work? E.g. streaming, many calls, etc. Only nitro lets you do those.

[Ekaros]

Thankfully my company uses Teams. So I don't need Discord for that. As non-nitro uses it works fine for text chat.

[esseph]

> Thankfully my company uses Teams.

Wwooooooowwwww I never thought I'd read that or even a similar statement in my entire life!

[nickthegreek]

> Please please please someone take over discord and their use base

This is one area where I can not muster the optimism to think that would improve the situation. You need someone else to somehow unseat them somehow.. they’re entrenched in this space so deeply though.