[qurren]

During my grad school years, back when the world was less competitive, I organized a LOT of events. I liked giving to the community, I had space to do it, and my needs were taken care of.

Nowadays I feel like anything I do either needs to be either (a) getting me closer to opportunities to build a living or wealth OR (b) individual recharging time.

When my poke bowl costs $24 (yes, it actually did), and my job application acceptance rate has cratered from ~100% to 10% over the past 10 years, I don't really have space to give to the community for free anymore.

[ryandrake]

I think this is why all the community events and social things in my neighborhood are organized by a few wealthy retirees. The rest of us are too busy spending all our time breaking our backs trying to survive another week so that maybe when we are 80 we’ll be able to get involved with something.

[joveian]

A quick look at your comments history suggests you are in the US. Of course individual circumstances can vary but overall looking at median disposable income adjusted for purchasing power parity (median equivalised household disposable income), the US is the wealthiest non-tiny country in the world (tecnically this data only covers the OECD and Luxembourg, a country smaller than many US cities, is the wealthiest).

https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/2024/06/society-at-a-gl...

[BobbyTables2]

The statistics may suggest that but it rarely feels that way.

It’s hard to not feel financially insecure from mid-teens through mid 30s-40s in age. And after then, there is just a sense that things will work out if one doesn’t screw up employment, house purchase, or face unexpected health issues. The less prudent can easily trip and fall, metaphorically speaking. Plus childcare expenses and retirement savings easily soak up any remaining disposable income…

And while historically inflation has been modest, the last 5-10 years show otherwise…

[joveian]

It is not hard for anyone to find things they can't afford so it can easily feel that way. So it is helpful to consider the reality in more depth when reaching for that as an excuse.

[inigyou]

Statistics never lie.

[inigyou]

Capitalism. It's like kudzu. It sees (metaphorically) a strong, healthy tree. It grows all over the surface of that tree, using it for support. It grows so much it blocks the sunlight and kills the tree. Then it dies too, but not before spreading to the next tree.

Who the hell thought it was a good idea to make kudzu the bedrock of society? I get why there's some of it - variety is good and all - why did we decide to worship it instead of keeping it in check?