[rdiddly]

I suspect I'm similar to many users, in that I came to Stack Overflow near the peak, and used it as basically a specialized search engine, without ever asking or answering a question. (I assume this is possible only if you use a widespread stack.) When something better came along, I just moved on. I hadn't directly experienced a sense of community, so I experienced (for example) bureaucratically-closed questions more as a hassle (search again) than as a betrayal.

[xeromal]

As someone who came into the industry in college, the problem with SO was simply that it was too hard to ask a question. They were up your ass about minutia that really didn't matter. Good riddance and can't wait to visit the site and see an EOL static page.

[cogman10]

One of the more annoying things about SO was they'd pretty frequently misclassify new questions.

Sometimes a new question was in fact a duplicate and should be closed as such. But in the quest to close duplicates I pretty frequently had to argue with the reviewer that "No, this isn't a duplicate just because these two questions related to the same library".

SO practically rewarded this sort of over-policing which I think is a big part of why everyone stopped using it.

And people stopping using it meant that when a question did actually make it through the gauntlet, it was likely to go unanswered because everyone who knew anything had left the platform.

[xeromal]

Yeah, I had several questions popped for being an "opinion" question whatever that means. lol.

Do you remember how power users would edit your question just for the gamification of it. Drove me nuts

[zahlman]

> Yeah, I had several questions popped for being an "opinion" question whatever that means. lol.

Meanwhile, I saw so many people come to the meta site apparently completely unable to understand that a question leading off with "what do you think is the best..." (almost literally, in many cases!) is asking for a subjective opinion, that I had to make an artificial meta-canonical for it (https://meta.stackoverflow.com/questions/434806).

[dmboyd]

That’s my only experience. Asking a direct technical question, only for it to be modified to a totally different question filled with essays of non-answers by folks who liked to answer their own questions I guess

[zahlman]

> Sometimes a new question was in fact a duplicate and should be closed as such. But in the quest to close duplicates I pretty frequently had to argue with the reviewer that "No, this isn't a duplicate just because these two questions related to the same library".

Please show examples. People arguing that XYZ is not a duplicate made up a large fraction of volume on the meta site, and in the overwhelming majority of cases it was very clear that the question was indeed a duplicate per site policy. It absolutely was not something people would do "just because these two questions related to the same library". (If it were really like that, tags would never get more than one question each.)

The goal is not that you can copy and paste code from the answer and have it work as-is. Minimally, we don't know your variable names, constants etc. and any number of other trivial details like that which perhaps shape the problem you are facing but are completely irrelevant to the question.

[cogman10]

Christ, this is actually the SO problem in a nutshell.

I'm not going to go dig through SO to refind the examples of improperly "closed as duplicate" questions I stumbled on years ago while looking up a problem.

It's just not that important to me for a dead site. I get it, that means "just trust me bro" is in play. Feel free to completely ignore my comment in that case. You win.

SO was filled with this sort of "technically this is a duplicate and you are just a nasty rule breaker" style comments with litigation that ultimately goes nowhere. I'm not on SO.

Others experienced and are reporting here and elsewhere experiencing the harsh moderation of SO. Trying to make that subjective feeling technically wrong does nothing to rehabilitate SO's reputation.

[zahlman]

> It's just not that important to me for a dead site. I get it, that means "just trust me bro" is in play.

See, this is the part where I'm actually getting insulted by the invocation of the "bro" language. No; what's happening here is that my lived experience as a curator of the site (which was quite stressful) is being denied, and it is supposed that evidence to counter me is not necessary.

This isn't about "winning"; this is about me wanting you to understand something that you apparently don't understand. Again, it's hurtful to have that motivation ascribed to me.

> SO was filled with this sort of "technically this is a duplicate and you are just a nasty rule breaker" style comments with litigation that ultimately goes nowhere.… Others experienced and are reporting here and elsewhere experiencing the harsh moderation of SO.

First off, I want to make this extremely clear: posting a question that gets closed is not, and was never, considered "breaking the rules". When people close a question, they are not moderating the site, but curating it; which is exactly why the overwhelming majority of such actions are taken by non-moderators. People are wrong and ignorant to call them mods, and it's hurtful that they don't take the time to understand this. I understand perfectly well that people felt that these actions were harsh, or even cruel. Many of them were not executed properly. But nobody ever takes the time to understand my perspective; they assume many false and hurtful things about me (and others) and refuse to be corrected on those assumptions. Worse, the site software, and the company, actively interfered with the intended curation of the site in many different ways over the years (changing according to whatever the company was currently trying in order to be profitable).

There is nothing "technical" about things being marked as duplicates. There is a clear standard for it which was reasoned out according to a very specific purpose: people who search the site should find the best possible version of the Q&A, so that they can directly get the answer to their question.

The only time that "litigation goes nowhere" is when people come to the meta site with the assumption that the rules do and ought to work the way they expected them to, and refuse to accept that they actually work differently. Stack Overflow was (and still is, to the extent that anyone remains) a community, and communities are supposed to have a right to self-determination. It's not the fault of the curators that the site presented a misleading interface, to the extent that that happened; they had no power to modify the interface beyond making more Q&A posts on the meta site.

[cogman10]

> a community, and communities are supposed to have a right to self-determination.

Your comment can be boiled down to this. And yes, I completely agree with you that a site has the right to operate however it pleases.

But that does not mean a site has the right to be free from outside criticism. Exercising your self-determination in a way that is obviously noxious will get called out, which is the right of an outsider.

Your perspective, frankly, doesn't matter. It won't rehabilitate the reputation of SO. I'm sorry this hurts as you've obviously invested a lot of time there. This isn't a problem of "everyone just doesn't understand the site" or "everyone should understand me".

Sites die when the experience isn't something end users enjoy. That's what happened to SO. No amount of rule litigation and self determination changes the perspective of the users. SO was a Q&A site that bent towards shutting down the Q&A section of the site as much as possible because of "curation". No wonder most people asking and answering questions decided "You know what, what's the point?"

[zahlman]

> As someone who came into the industry in college, the problem with SO was simply that it was too hard to ask a question.

That's because you were intended to use the site like GP describes, and not by asking simply because you want to know something.

> They were up your ass about minutia that really didn't matter.

What you consider "minutia" were critically important, because the entire point was to optimize for GP's experience.

[dalyons]

and how did that work out? the site is dead now because of it

[zahlman]

The site was always going to die. That is completely okay. Things are allowed to exist without chasing a profit motive. Communities are allowed to form on for-profit platforms, and they should not be required to have the platform's commercial interest in mind.

[psd1]

- industry pivots to AI - SO traffic tanks - "lol, they killed themselves with their shitty moderation"

[wikiiiisksklhll]

So is wikipedia.

[the_lucifer]

> They were up your ass about minutia that really didn't matter. Good riddance and can't wait to visit the site and see an EOL static page.

Well said. It was just something I (and I'm guessing other software devs) put up with because that was the only option. The "ask a question" button was radioactive to me having seen the kind of dogpiling onto people who were asking clearly relevant questions but breaking imaginary rules.

Plus with how much "reputation" early users had amassed just for asking basic questions constituting low hanging fruit, there was no way for any new participant to get enough rep or whatever to begin contributing back to the community. IMO they pioneered the first K-shaped economy.

I felt a little bad when I saw the graph of their traffic fall precipitously, just to be replaced with schadenfreude with the insane takes of their community moderators blaming everything but the culture they'd cultivated ("less questions is actually good, because that's the goal of SO").

In short, I'm eagerly awaiting the death of that rotten place.