[threethirtytwo]

No it's not. I can see how it's recommended. It's the best possible decision for the victim. But the scale of the crime is still horrible.

I wouldn't pin judgement on someone elses recommendation nor would I say them being a social worker validates it even more than say some rando guy on the internet. Judge the facts.

Her life was ruined. That is huge. It is an epic crime. Not a mild thing.

[rglullis]

> Her life was ruined.

How so? We are talking about someone coming from a poor origin in one of the poorest states in Brazil, in the 1970's!

This is the story of a girl whose mother has been working with the family and moved in with them when she was 7 years old. For some reason, after a while the mother gets out of the picture (Passed away? Tried her luck to migrate south but couldn't take her child?), she had no place to go so she stayed with them. It's not like she had a whole range of opportunities ahead of her. What do you think her life would be had she not stayed with the family? Do you think she would be better off if she was thrown on the street?

Yes, it sucks that she grew up in an environment where she was not seen as an equal peer. Yes, it is appalling to think that no one in a seemingly wealthy family never thought of giving the same opportunity to her as they would give to their own kids. Yes, she should have been given a lot more autonomy. Yes, she deserves to get a lot more for what she has done beyond shelter/food/clothes. But all things considered, at that time her staying with the family was the best alternative in a scenario where all alternatives are shitty.

Stop applying today's standards for something that happened more than 55 years ago, specially when you clearly have no grasp on what is like to live where abject poverty is the norm.

[threethirtytwo]

I do not know her complete circumstance in Brazil because I don't know brazil very well. I'm not yet convinced you do either.

What I do know is from my own background. That is, if the same situation happened to her in the US, orphanage can do much better for her. She can have more chances. Even 55 years ago.

You make a convincing argument here, but that's only if all the details of what you say is true and full aligns with the true reality of her exact situation... which I doubt. Do you live in brazil? do you know the history of brazil 55 years ago and the exact living conditions? If not, then your argument doesn't hold weight. On the other hand if you have detailed knowledge and experience with her circumstance then I will concede.

[rglullis]

I was born and raised in Sâo Paulo, Brazil. Fortunate enough to not have lived through these experiences, but not affluent to the point where I was detached from people from more humble backgrounds. I can tell you that even today most orphans would rather have the life of this girl than growing up in the system.