[CamouflagedKiwi]

They don't really "just get to say" that. Declaring yourself bankrupt is a fairly major thing that will have long-term consequences. It clearly isn't desirable to do casually, we don't see it often (at least not in the personal sense; businesses can be a bit different).

> It's one thing if you're in a crazy desperate situation and someone takes advantage of you

In that kind of situation, declaring bankruptcy is likely not going to help you so much. Those people are going to come after you anyway.

I think you sort of fundamentally misunderstand this. Bankruptcy isn't thievery - it's a solution for people who get themselves into a bad situation and don't have a way forward. Say you bought a house with a mortgage, the value of the house has now dropped for some reason so you have negative equity, and you lose your job and can't afford to make the repayments any more. What should happen? You don't have money to pay what you owe, and you can't get it because your total net worth is negative. Saying that's theft doesn't help the question of what to do - society doesn't benefit from dumping on that poor person any more.