[elktown]

It's all about tone. The original bad behavior is done without overt "bad tone" but if the response to it is spicy then the former is ignored and the latter is condemned despite being of lesser severity.

I can buy that it can be good corporate politics to not upset the superficial crowd that will immediately lash out on tone, but I will not judge someone rightfully reacting on bad behavior that they've been on the receiving end of.

Also, I didn't say being rude is a sign of honesty, that's you extrapolating.

[orangedog]

You can call it superficiality but there are just some of us who believe that treating people right is the core of this. You're viewing that as some kind of superficial virtue signaling but if we're not treating people with respect then there's not a point in doing any of this, it gets to the very thing that Kelley is complaining about.

[elktown]

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[orangedog]

It's not about kid gloves. There is a ways of reponing to this which isn't this ugly. That's part of being a leader.

[elktown]

I guess I don't value the stoic leadership ideal as much as you do.

[Tadpole9181]

When did Jarred say anything but kind things to Andrew?

[elktown]

There are more ways to behave badly than to call someone bad words. If you’re being that literal.

[ai_critic]

Okay, then what did he do?

[Tadpole9181]

Please, enumerate them.

[elktown]

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