[frollogaston]

I pay attention when someone makes a hard decision based on a hard-learned lesson. It's like, most who choose to use an ORM just heard of it or want to avoid learning SQL, everyone who removes an ORM learned firsthand horrors.

[aizk]

Funny you mention ORMs, I'm building a project with bun, and just using raw bun sqlite until I feel the app gets too complicated and I need it. AIs are really damn good at SQL, I can just trust them with it, and it keeps the project much lighter. A few years ago this would just sound stupid, but here we are.

[frollogaston]

That's what I always did pre LLM, it was fine

[lionkor]

The result of this will be that you end up at the highest level of abstraction.

Let me save you time and tell you that C# and it's ecosystem is where you'll be happy.