[c0riander]

I agree that both lists are important questions to ask, but as you allude to in your last sentence, it seems like it's asking for a great deal of self-awareness.

Most people are probably just not self-aware to be able to accurately answer those questions (from things like the mechanics of how a future event should occur all the way to "are our values/work styles aligned").

Do you, or anyone here, have suggestions for alleviating that?

[tptacek]

What's a question here you think would require an unreasonable amount of self-awareness to answer? (I'm not disputing that some of my questions do, I'm just curious).