[thunky]

Both of you can be correct:

Valid posts get flagged frequently, enough for people to notice it. But not every, or even most, posts in this category get flagged.

[fsflover]

This is just an empty accusation without specific examples.

[thunky]

I'm saying that you could both be correct, which is not an accusation.

[fsflover]

You didn't accuse, the parent did by saying that some unknown posts were flagged, which is an empty accusation, if it's without any links.