[Maxion]

Yep this is what has happened to small teams. You really only have time to approve the dependabot changes and go go go. Otherwise you'll never get anything productive done.

The other option is to simply ignore updates and do them on a schedule, e.g. once every 1-2 months.

[AlotOfReading]

Or you take the alternative approach of flattening and minimizing your dependency graph. Having so many dependencies you can't reasonably field bug reports in them is a chosen tradeoff, even if it doesn't feel that way.