[stymaar]

> 202 would be another

Then you'd return 202 on a request to delete any invalid element, which really doesn't sound right.

> 200 with some sort of response to distinguish (e.g. { changed: boolean }).

Sounds even worse, and much like APIs that returns 200 with a payload saying {error:"not found"}

[gbuk2013]

> Then you'd return 202 on a request to delete any invalid element, which really doesn't sound right

It depends on your use-case if you care about this or not. If you do care you will have to handle it either way somehow.

But if you want an idempotent API then a success is more appropriate IMO than an error.

[jaapz]

Request failed successfully

[locknitpicker]

It's the graphql way.

[gbuk2013]

Not really, more like succeed without having to do anything.

The key is the perspective of what success is: it’s the state where the resource does not exist, or is the action having deleted the resource. But 200/202 is perfectly capable of expressing the distinction in the latter case as well.