[kakacik]

If you are a loving parent, all that crap you list is utterly irrelevant. I don't think I need to list in details why.

[munksbeer]

It sounds like you are speaking to someone who has actually experienced this and you have not. Trying to be civil here, I'll phrase it like this:

Try not to be so judgemental over a keyboard when you have no experience to speak from. Life is complicated.

[jstanley]

The experience could easily run the other way around, you are doing the same thing you criticise.

[Dansvidania]

But in a non judgemental way.