[altcognito]

The point is if you come in with imprecise, vague language, you are literally saying something like "I hate math."

You blame others -- "They're lumped into the same bucket even when they shouldn't" -- some of that is on you for lumping what is a marketing labels in with the fundamental technology.

"People aren't suddenly going to start loving it after everything that's happened in the past ~5 years or so"

That's not the way it's going to go. Tools will develop in ways beyond what is seen today, and it will fade into the background noise, just like the internet, search and other tools, but only moreso.