I'm desperate for people to make tech that's searchable. I'd like to figure out some of the thread/matter bits for my own projects and this is terribly annoying to do
Actually, you can make it work with Arduino Nano Matter. It boils down to vendor support. If they support Arduino like Silicon Labs or Espressif, then it is available for hobbyists.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40326269