[marcus_holmes]

I think "coerce" is doing a lot of work here.

There's a huge difference between a loving parent gently but firmly teaching their kid to clean their teeth every day even though they don't want to, and a brutal schoolteacher beating facts into a class full of miserable kids.

[b112]

There is a difference. Yet that's the point. Because "beating facts" and "miserable kids" is not necessarily inferred from 'coerced', as opposed to 'gently but firmly', and that's why people are clarifying so.

There is in fact little difference between "you have to learn these things" and "brushing your teeth".