[FrustratedMonky]

"how to accomplish the thing."

I always thought this was splitting hairs.

C#,C++, Java seems imperative. You are in control? But you aren't really telling it how to move values between registers, the compiler is making a million decisions for you on how the computer will execute that 'imperative' code. Just like SQL isn't really telling the DB how to do it either..

[cmrdporcupine]

It's really a matter of degrees though. You're waving away a big part of the big sell of a relational database as proposed by Codd, which is that the user need not "know" the structure of the data in order to formulate operations on it because there's a consistent set-oriented model that can be used with a bunch of different physical storage forms but also the very sequence of relational operations against it can be re-ordered / restructured without the user knowing. And that the same data can be accessed in N number of ways that don't require changing the underlying storage. In theory. In practice SQL databases are only sort-of there.

Contrast that if I create a class/object/field structure/hierarchy in Java, or put a HashMap somewhere with a certain set of keys, I've written something in stone which requires significant refactoring if the data needs to be accessed from a different direction.