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by dheera 24 days ago
Not to mention, cruel towards people who are not financially ready for children and make a conscious choice to not have children without the resources for it, but get financially penalized for it.
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The poor have dramatically more children than the rich on average, you don't need to be rich to have kids. Kids don't need to have rich parents to have a good live/upbringing.
waiting to be “financially ready for children” before having them is objectively a poor decision
"poor" is a subjective, not an objective property of a decision.

I never do anything without being financially ready. I'm a big believer in only commiting to something when I have the cash to allocate for all of it. I wouldn't buy a car, house, anything without actually having the cash for it.

having kids is not a purchase

it’s more like getting into a cold swimming pool, you’ll never be fully prepared you just need to jump in