[throwaway2037]

Yeah, I love this part too: https://arslan.io/2025/12/26/books-i-read-in-2025/

    > If I’m reading a book, once the kids are asleep, I have 3–4 hours each evening, and I also have free time on the weekends. So it’s possible to read a lot of books as a father of two kids. I could probably read even more if I stopped spending time on other things, like writing for my blog, learning piano, or doing industrial design.

I thought: "Oh, I see, so you don't parent much."

[a10c]

I too continue parenting my children once they are asleep.

[marknutter]

It's possible to be a great parent who does "parent much" while also having your own hobbies and life.