[dwa3592]

Define assimilation please!

- i started watching football with my american friends

- i studied the american political system enough to have educated discussions about it

- i caught healthcare fraud at federal level which was mainly hurting very old americans.

- i started doing barbeque

- i started going out on the weekend

- i tip heavily

what i don't do: eat at drive throughs, buy stuff that i don't need, guns etc.

I still carry a chip on my shoulder and worry about ICE just detaining me for no reason.

"They don't assimilate" is just a cover for "They don't look and talk like us".

[rayiner]

The things you’re describing are superficial. My wife’s dad is a Japanophile and she grew up eating sushi, etc. That doesn’t make her Japanese.

Assimilation is about how you think and what you value. It’s not just knowing about the American political system, but understanding and embracing the values and worldview that created it.

[yulker]

Go ahead and tell us what it means to be a real American then

[sersi]

And how much does the Trump administration understand and embrace the values and worldview that created the American political system. How much do they agree with the Founding Fathers? ‘We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.’?

[rayiner]

Honestly, not very well. Trump is from an immigrant background. He doesn’t talk like an American (unlike Obama or Bush or Clinton). The American right these days is filled with people from recent immigrant ancestry whose understanding of American values is something of an impersonation of the real thing.

The founder’s America ceased to exist at the national level with the election of FDR.

[pstuart]

Was that "Rose-uh-velt" or "Roos-uh-velt"?

[selimthegrim]

FDR was quite blue-blooded himself.

[dwa3592]

>>Assimilation is about how you think and what you value. It’s not just knowing about the American political system, but understanding and embracing the values and worldview that created it.

Now you are just bullshitting bc you think you have ran out of substantive things to say, which you never had, to begin with.

[rayiner]

Do you think that people from different cultures don’t have different values and worldviews?

[pstuart]

Do you think that kids born in America (or anywhere for that matter) don't care about fitting in with the other kids? Did you? When you were a kid were you more concerned about your Bangladeshi heritage or not being an outsider amongst your peers?

And yet I'm sure you didn't lose respect for your family and background, because one can do both things simultaneously. But those other brown people are different and bad and have bad culture that ruins things, right?

[georgemcbay]

> - i started watching football with my american friends

And I'd assume and hope parts of your native culture rubbed off on your American friends.

As someone whose ancestors have been American for quite a while (1850s) I can't make sense of the idea espoused by some on this thread* that "American culture" is something that needs to be strongly protected from changing and that's why we need to virtually lock-down immigration.

The feature that makes "American culture" powerful is exactly that it assimilates to the people who come here, not that they assimilate to it.

* (not you, this is just a convenient jumping off point for me to chime in on)

[dwa3592]

>> And I'd assume and hope parts of your native culture rubbed off on your American friends.

not that i know of, actually all the american friends i have made are super respectful of my native culture, especially the food and festivals.

[Fnoord]

Honestly, it is pure hatred and plain stupidity.

They don't have the same religion, customs, values, history, etc.

Assimilation takes generations, and the point of integration is that some of their culture is retained. That is how you get pizza snd maffia to New York (to name two random examples), or how languages evolve.

For example, I am from Amsterdam area. The culture there was heavily influenced by Jewish diaspora, and the dialect by Yiddish and Bargoens. The street language nowadays is a mish-mash of English, Jewish, and Arabian culture, as well as that which influenced Dutch language before (mainly English, German, French, Latin, Greek, and I am probably forgetting to mention some). Some parts of our culture are still artifacts from past, we just take them for granted. Last name for example, was introduced by Napoleon. The Austria-Hungarians had influence on the south, and religiously the Catholics are mainly from south (as well as entire Belgium) with the North (above the rivers) being rather Protestants. Language-wise, Belgium's history of three languages is of interest, you could say the same about Switzerland. I wouldn't call USA solely English-speaking either. Heck, just look at the names of places around SV.

Also, would you tip if the food was terrible? I wouldn't. They should be happy I paid (my wife before I knew her once had soup so salty, she send back to kitchen. Chef said was normal. They didn't resolve, yet the soup was on the bill. She and her friends just left).

My recommendation to you? Well, I am not from USA but been in Cali a couple of times. Pivot to people who accept you for who you are. Don't hide where you're coming from, use it to empower you instead.

[rayiner]

I feel like we agree on a lot so I don’t get your conclusion.

> They don't have the same religion, customs, values, history, etc.

Correct. But why is it “hatred” for people to not want immigrants to bring foreign customs and values with them? Customs and values are substantive! The customs and values of people around you affect your life, especially in a democracy where those people get to vote on the laws that govern you.

> Assimilation takes generations

Correct! You and Stephen Miller are on the same page about that.

> That is how you get pizza snd maffia to New York (to name two random examples)

Correct again! Why is it “hatred” and “stupidity” if you think the pizza wasn’t worth the mafia?

> For example, I am from Amsterdam area

My hypothesis is that New York City would be cleaner, more polite, better governed, and more orderly if it was still New Amsterdam. But the food would be crap. Do you disagree?

[UncleOxidant]

Ok, but do you eat peanut butter and drink root beer - those are the sure signs of full assimilation.

[throwaway173738]

Sorry where I come from we drink peanut butter and eat roots are we still American?