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by nathanaldensr 32 days ago
This does absolutely nothing to address the underlying social, economic, and ideological reasons why new relationship formation is struggling so much, especially with Gen Z. It's not a technological problem, in other words.

I won't go into my personal explanations here as I'll just be downvoted into oblivion (there are other forums for that discussion) but I will say this: without men and women having reasons to be in relationships--especially long-term reasons--then relationships won't happen. It's proving easier to get our needs met outside of relationships.

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> without men and women having reasons to be in relationships--especially long-term reasons--then relationships won't happen.

I'm actually fine with this. I'm not sure I want to be around the same person constantly for longer than a few years and I'm glad modern life allows me to do that. Leaving my family when I became an adult was the best thing I ever did.

I'm sure someone out there's thinking or about to say "families are the basis of a stable society" and that's incorrect. The basis of a stable society is having enough money. Without that, families are simply going to be a performative thing to satisfy angry people and/or busybodies.

I'm really sorry for you. I hope you will have someone to love you someday. No amount of money can bring that kind of happiness.
Many people love me, and I love many people. Love exists outside of exclusive sexual relationships and/or ones designed to encourage breeding.
>I won't go into my personal explanations here as I'll just be downvoted into oblivion

Enlighten us.