I care a lot about software and I use LLMs extensively. There are some things I deeply understand yet I don't care for doing anymore because I've done them for years and there's nothing to be gained from doing them manually.
That’s just you using the tools responsibly. Not using LLMs to perform well defined virtually deterministic tasks that you fully understand is simply a waste of time. There’s a big difference between that and just letting agents go wild and do your design for you.