[altruios]

I wouldn't torture a chair, and I would not associate anyone who gains pleasure from such. It is worse if the chair were to expressed displeasure. That indicates something deeply wrong.

Having such psychopaths revealed: use that information to alter your associations, is what I would suggest.

[fellowniusmonk]

These are real, shared, issues we are all effected by not one persons personal problem.

I'm not looking for advice on how to associate with people, hopefully you can understand the distinction.

[altruios]

> These are real, shared, issues we are all effected by not one persons personal problem.

Yes. I am not talking about just you. But of this (mal) mentality in general. As well as a proposed solution to deal with that mentality (shun it).

My apologies that my advise was unwelcome to you, it was, however, not just for you.