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by denzil_correa
4968 days ago
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No it does NOT. Not apologizing if you're wrong makes you a douchebag. There might be something you missed and therefore you want to correct yourself. It happens all the time - no big deal in an apology. PS - This is a general comment on tendering apologies and has got nothing to do with the OP. |
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So if there are third parties present, the best strategy is not to apologize unless you are fairly certain it will be viewed as sincere. In the absence of a 3rd party, apology is the winning strategy regardless of sincerity.
I found it interesting that the recipient of the apology is made to feel better not because the wrongdoer cares enough to apologize but because it is an opportunity to be seen by others and affirm one's self-image as magnanimous and gracious by accepting. We are such odd creatures.
The best course of action is to express regret without accepting responsibility unless you actually believe you were at fault.
[0] http://psycnet.apa.org/journals/psp/92/3/418/