[jvanderbot]

I've found the challenges, personally, are related to my lackadaisical prior life. Casual workouts after my job. Working whatever hours I wanted so I could take it easy at the job knowing I could just stay late. Completely open evenings and weekends so no need to plan ahead. Plenty of leisure time to tidy up while doing anything or nothing. Seeing friends several times a week so no need to make effort to reach out or block time.

I never learned to be busy. I thought working 60-70h and studying weekends was busy, but that was just laziness-compensation.

Now I know how and the pure joy of having kids can be appreciated. Getting used to that was hard.

So we sorted out that challenge. There are many more ahead.