[narvidas]

That's so interesting, isn't it?

What this person could've take away here was that: - Contrary to what the article states, parenthood in males can sometimes even boost testosterone through external factors. - Or that resitance training and diet is a great way to deal with daily stress.

What instead they took away was that improving oneself for family somehow makes you unfit to be a parent.

A rather dark interpretation. Sincerely hope they are OK and well.