[brandall10]

Understood, but to be clear, I felt the same way after I heard how off I was, as if maybe there was something defective with my brain.

Just start small, record 4 bars of something, play it back. Use a metronome to gauge the actual amount of drift. See if you can hear what the metronome is telling you. Try to improve it with a few more attempts, then call it a day.

Try again after a good night's rest. Over time you should be able to naturally feel when you're slowing down or speeding up.