To me, the role playing, and the crunchy bits, as well as tactics, combat, and other stuff, are all significant and important part of TTRPG; it should not be only one of those things.
In my experience the roleplay heavy groups are very quick to houserule out any of the crunchy rules they don't like, too. So it really is the worst of both worlds for me, I don't get to engage with the game system the way I want to, and I also am expected to roleplay heavily