[watwut]

So basically, you dont believe people when they talk about how they feel and what they think, because you think you know them better.

That is not how it works. If you ever had someone else project feelings they think you have on you while ignoring what you say, you would know how absurdly missing the mark they are.

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Please don't twist my words.

I've lived in these families and communities on both sides. I clearly said it was anecdotal.

I think you missed the whole point of my comment.