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by tim-projects
68 days ago
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> In many cultures it used to be (or still is) quite common to treat brides as property. Property is not the right word for this. Responsibility is the right word. When a bride price is paid, you give money (or goods) to the family. In return the responsibility of the care of the woman is passed down. This is not a traditional monetary style transaction in the way it appears. In practice, a lot of families that accept a bride price end up returning the value in different ways. But the responsibility is passed down from parents to partner and that's why divorce is so frowned upon. |
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We can sugarcoat it all the way we want, but in biblical times, when parents are under economic stress, female newborns are laid in the sun for post-natal abortion. Female offspring is a financial liability, they do not provide the same 'value' as males do. So when a father raises a women, the father gets compensated.