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by voxgen
66 days ago
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Thank you for the reminder. Childhood, at least IME, does a bad job of preparing people for this: fault and blame rarely matter in real interactions. When no teacher is around to play judge, all that matters is that you get a favorable outcome. That's something you need to figure out, usually in the heat of the moment, how to get. It takes active effort to understand the other side. |
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