[defrost]

I cannot see the need for anything other than neutral pronouns when discussing permutations with either G.Egan or C.Praeger.

[array_key_first]

I cannot see the harm in using a different pronoun or opening up the ability for that - it feels like a fake or imaginary problem that we are creating such that we have something to complain about to make ourselves feel better. If we want to feel better, we should just smoke or something.