They went to Oregon with Betty who was a maid and a cook.
They went to Oregon with Betty, the maid, and the cook.
Betty could be the maid. English meaning depends partly on word order:
They went to Oregon with the maid, Betty, and the Cook.
They went to Oregon with the maid, the cook, and Betty They went to Oregon with the maid, the cook and Betty
They went to Oregon with Betty the maid and the cook.
Betty could be the maid. English meaning depends partly on word order:
Still ambiguous. In the former, I suppose the maid might be the cook also. The latter moves more easily and with less ambiguity.