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> Was I simply more brave and self-sufficient back then?

Probably! A good reason to exercise those skills again

> (I'm not sure anyone would let a random stranger into their home now, but maybe they still do).

Curious what makes you think that. Perhaps as an exercise, do something that requires asking a favour of someone. You might be pleasantly surprised. Despite all the ills in society, faith can be restored be some amazing interactions with people offline

> So I just left and found another place to park

That's exactly the right response. Being late sucked but hopefully just a once off .

> Maybe I am not less brave but just more cheap.

This is honestly unsaid in a lot of these discussions! The non phone methods can be a bit more expensive. It's a good point but sometimes the difference isn't huge