[jrflowers]

Do your friends and family know that calling a cookie a bitch is humiliating to you? That’s a pretty strong feeling, so I would be pretty mad if I communicated that and people close to me still dragged me to those places anyway. I wouldn’t be mad at the business, though, I’d be mad at the people that are knowingly disrespecting my boundaries.

[trick-or-treat]

When strangers do that it's disrespecting boundaries. When family does it it's giving you a hard time / teasing.

[jrflowers]

When a stranger drags you to a place that you don’t want to go that is kidnapping.

[trick-or-treat]

Not if you consent to it first. But you should probably agree on a safe word.