[busterarm]

Seriously. Not understanding what this means almost makes the reply worthless as the proper context just isn't there.

I was in two different relationships where my partner was trying to destroy me. One literally tried to murder me.

Being alone is so much better than that, it's not even close.

[bko]

Thats not what most people use about the wrong person. Thats an abusive relationship. And the comment says as much a few sentences later

[busterarm]

Some of you people are so autistic it needs to be spelled out for you. Being with people who aren't good for you in other ways is similarly terrible. I cited one extreme example and that's the only thing you focus on.

It could be as simple as someone who isn't supportive ever.

And no, the person that tried to kill me wasn't abusive otherwise. She was just very unstable.