[Noumenon72]

Does "single for ~10+10 years" mean 20 years, or that you were single before you were 10 and then till age 20?

[rfc3092]

I was single for 10 years after college. Then married for 7 (very very badly). Then single for another 10. I thought I will spend the rest of my days alone. I have two kids now.

[s3p]

Thanks for sharing. I am somewhat in the same boat as OP so this is really helpful!