[techjamie]

Incel doesn't usually pertain to every virgin male out there. It's typically with a connotation for a certain type of male. Usually the more narcissistic sort that blame their own failings on women and take it out misogynistically.

[delichon]

The word incel smears all involuntary celibates, not just the whiney over entitled types. The bigotry is in that conflation.