[bluGill]

So? money is nice, but it isn't everything. many people have demoted themselves because something other than money was important to them.

[dh2022]

"Many people have demoted themselves...." you must travel in very selective circles, my friend. (or more likely, arguing for the sake of arguing.)

[bluGill]

The vast vast majority do not do that. However there are so many people in the world that the remainder is still many people.

[mghackerlady]

Money is objectively needed to take care of children to any decent standard. Choosing to shoot yourself in the foot to be seen as less sexist is dumb

[dh2022]

Leave him alone. He will find another reason why you are wrong and he is right. (I mis-used his pronouns probably.)